Praise the Lord!  We were able to get in to see the doctor already today!  She agreed completely with a diagnosis of ADHD and we were given an Adderall prescription.  Starting at 5mg for a week, then deciding if we need to bump it up to 10mg if there's still room for improvement.  She took one right away in the car before she went to school after the appointment. Let the teacher and school nurse know she's started the meds, so we will all see how it goes!